Why do I tense up and not have an orgasm?

In response.

This is because one is not “letting go completely.” Orgasm comes when the release of the tension is “uncontrolled”. Any attempt to control or mental distraction will hold incomplete tension and the tension will not release because of either conscious or even unconscious control and/or mental distraction. Orgasm must be unrestrained.

There was a lady who would fight penetration. It was revealing of her past experience.


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Victor Chen, herbalist, alternative healthcare lecturer, Chinese affairs analyst, retired journalist
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